What is a True Friend?

It's taken me 30 long years, but I've finally realized the characteristics of a true friend. So, without further ado, here are my thoughts.

True friends...

Even if it's not possible to answer every time you call, a true friend will return your call/email/text message when they have a minute.

A true friend will support you when things are tough, not tell you that you're overreacting or being a wimp.

Real friends follow through on promises and don't make empty ones.

A real friend remembers things important to you -- your birthday, that your grandfather is in the hospital, your mom's name, that your dog is hurt, etc.

A true friend NEVER asks for more than they plan to return.

Real friends don't make lame excuses for no good reason.

You can trust a true friend with the keys to your house and your car.

If you need help with something and a true friend is already obligated and cannot help you, a real friend will do whatever it takes to make it up to you.

True friends will drive more than four hours one way to be there for you when you need something, no matter how trivial.

Real friends don't judge you by the the mistakes you've made (especially if they are the same mistakes that THEY'VE made), but rather, support you through everything.

A real friend is the one beside you when you're at your happiest or most miserable.

I guess it all boils down to this: a real, true friend will not walk out on you, no matter your mood or your situation.